Saturday, April 24, 2010

Possesiveness

Possesiveness-according to oxford dictionary means 'demanding someone's attention ' or ' guarding one's possesion'. We often hear people saying things like ''i m possesive about my mother,friends,love,watch,clothes etc. Possesiveness could be for anything;be it in relationships or for our belongings.
Some of us find it as an interference into our private space while some other feel that its okay unless it turns into over possesiveness. In my view its just a special care for the person or thing that we love n that we never wanna loose. Sometimes it really feels great when u know that there is someone who dont want to loose you;that there is someone who cares a lot for you.
Possesiveness turns into over possesiveness when people become insecure for the things that they feel possesive about. Possesiveness or overpossesiveness.....both are just a form of care..but sometimes people get irritated of it n disrespect the feelings of those who r possesive for something.
We need to understand that feelings need to be respected n should be taken in a positive way to feel pampered.
Try to be that good that your loved ones feels possesive about you.
So,people,be positive,pamper ur loved ones n feel pampered.
Keep smiling!! :)